I have been on the child end of some God sized discipline lately.
Its been gentle and affirming, but man has it stung at times.
I had a friend/acquaintance call me out on a post I made several months ago. At first, it angered me. I thought she was being too sensitive, judgmental and narrow minded. But soon after that awkward and painful confrontation, I realized, she wasn't the one who was being judgmental or narrow minded. I was. The discipline was fairly immediate but I can't say that it stopped there nor that it was swift. The conversation has played over and over in my brain for months now. Bits and pieces of what she said stick out in ways I never saw coming. Its slowly been changing and molding how I see people.
I realized how much of a snob I had become. Some people wouldn't know it because I can hide it most of the time, but I had a tendency to judge and pigeon hole people, alienating them based on how I was feeling or how I would be affected by them. Since that conversation several relationships have been evaluated and I realized I kept certain people at arms length because they didn't fit a standard I thought I needed to keep myself "safe". I knew i had a self centered tendency but OH BOY I didn't realize the depth of it.
The song "F*ing Perfect" by Pink has a verse that constantly plays in my head now.
Done looking for the critics
'Cause they're everywhere
They don't like my jeans
They don't get my hair
Strange ourselves
And we do it all the time
Why do we do that?
Why do I do that?
Even though its been months since that conversation, I still have moments when her words come back to me pretty strongly and I find myself smiling at what its still teaching me.
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James
2:1-4 - My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus
Christ must not show favoritism. Suppose a man comes into your meeting
wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in filthy old clothes also
comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes
and say, "Here's a good seat for you," but say to the poor man,
"You stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my
feet," have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges
with evil thoughts?
James
2:8-10 - If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture,
"Love your neighbor as yourself," you are doing right. But if
you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as
lawbreakers. For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one
point is guilty of breaking all of it.
Philippians
2:1-8 Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with
Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if
any tenderness and compassion, then
make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in
spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.
Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own
interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your
relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ
Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God
something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself
nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in
human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled
himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!
Hosea 10:12 - Sow for yourselves
righteousness, reap the fruit of unfailing love, and break up your
unplowed ground; for it is time to seek the Lord, until he
comes and showers righteousness on you.
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